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Returning to education: Talking points

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  • Heading back to university will open up a whole new social life for you. It is important to factor in some time to get involved in social activities, when you can. Try and do this from the start so it becomes part of your routine. 

  • Students will be meeting a wide range of new friends and colleagues. They may be reluctant to get involved as they may have multiple priorities. Do encourage them to make the most of all the social opportunities they can. 

  • Alongside timetabled lectures, seminars and meetings comes the need for independent study. Figure out how much free time you currently have alongside your other responsibilities and time periods you can protect. This is a good starting point for setting a balanced routine. 

  • Returning to university will take up substantial proportion of time. You can be a big support by reviewing shared responsibilities. If they don't live with you, kind gestures like offering your time or support go a long way.

  • It is understandable that you have multiple priorities such as caring or financial responsibilities. Being clear what order your priorities take will help with planning, not only your time but also your finances. Just remember, don't be a superhero! 

  • Have a conversation about any shared responsibilities and set your priorities together. This may be a hard task but having these set before starting at university will help.

  • Finances can be a worry for anyone but more so if you are coming to university with other financial commitments. Setting a clear budget at this early stage, investigating what funding is available or what time you have for a part time job can help reduce this concern. 

  • Having realistic financial discussions and making plans on how to cover any shortfalls will support success at university. 

  • Space for study is such a small part of the university experience but can have a big impact. If you are planning to study at home setting a clear desk or office space is key. If you have multiple distractions at home or want to make the most of your time on campus, university study space may suit you better.

  • If you are living together while at university, you can help to set aside the study space that works in your household. Otherwise helping with moving furniture or helping them decide on a space that works for them is a help. 

  • Imposter phenomenon is a real and common experience at times of change. There will be help and support at the university but in the meantime, spend some time familiarising yourself with academic information available and anything you feel is relevant to help the transition.

  • It is normal to be feeling nervous and unsure about  returning to education. Your reassurance is invaluable to them. Even if they are not feeling this way, keep telling them how brilliant they are!

Considering the above points will help it become clear how best to alter your current routine to fit university in. You will be treated the same as every other student no matter your background, you've earned your place and deserve everything Nottingham has to offer.

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